Christmas gets crazy. There is so much to do: gifts to be purchased and wrapped, travel plans to be made, and work goals to accomplish. This is even more challenging for pastors who have extra worship services and visits to do. The pressure during the holidays is so much higher. I admit that the first few years that I was a pastor I totally missed personally experiencing Advent and Christmas. I did it. I went through the motions, but it was not a heart experience.
Over the last few years I have worked to be intentional about getting more out of Christmas and Advent. Here are my best suggestions for you:
1. Create a good soundtrack.
All great movies have great soundtracks. The music sets the emotions for each scene and each character. Christmas has great music. There is also now some great music related to the themes of Advent. Here are some of the albums in my playlist:
Advent Albums- Daniel Renstrom’s On the Incarnation, Robbie Seay Band’s December Vol. 2, The Brilliance Advent, Vol. 2
Christmas Albums- Vince Guaraldi Trio, Holidays Rule Compilation Album, David Crowder Band, Joy Electric, Citizens & Saints, James Taylor, The Rend Collective, The Piano Guys, Trans-Siberian Orchestra
Find ones that work for you.
2. Get some good movies.
Movies have this amazing ability to get you out of your own head and get you to live vicariously through another character. A great Christmas movie can do that for you. I am not a Hallmark Channel guy. At my house the big one is Elf. We also watch the old clamation movies like Santa Claus is Coming to Town and Rudolph. We watch both Grinch movies. I also love to watch classics like White Christmas, A Christmas Story, Miracle on 34th Street, and some version of “A Christmas Carol.”
3. Get a good devotional
I find that a good devotional can help me in any season. Here are a few I have used the last few years:
Preparing for Christmas: Daily Meditations for Advent by Richard Rohr is incredibly thought provoking.
Watch for the Light: Readings for Advent and Christmas including readings by people like Bonhoeffer, Dillard, Eliot, Lewis, Luther, Merton, Nouwen, and Yancey among many others. This book is loaded with great people and great insights.
Advent and Christmas Wisdom from Henri J.M. Nouwen: Daily Scripture and Prayers together with Nouwen’s Own Words– This book is a series of readings from the works of Nouwen compiled around the themes of Advent and Christmas.
I have also written 2 devotions for the month of December. You can download them athttp://www.jordanrimmer.com/adventdevotinals/
4. Create Margin in your Schedule
This is a tough one, but I think that it is really important for people to create more margin in their schedules during the holidays. By margin I mean creating more gaps in your schedule. Keep distance between meetings and schedule times during the week with nothing in them. I get all my home visits and meetings done very early in the week. I like to be ahead and coasting for the few days before Christmas Eve. I want to be at my best for my kids and family, but I also want to be at my best for my church. I have found that in order to do that I have to slow down.
5. Make some good family traditions
There is something powerful about traditions and experiences. They provide anchors for stories the way symbols do in movies. Anymore I try to be intentional about creating some of these movements.
Decorating– We decorate the tree after Thanksgiving. Every year we let each of our kids get a new ornament for the tree. It is fun now because it is like a little history of their childhood every year.
Nail in the tree- Every year we hang a large nail in the middle of the tree to help us remember why Jesus came to earth. It is covered by the ornaments, but we all know it is in there.
Elf on the Shelf- We have gotten into the Elf on the Shelf. We don’t do it as a behavior management tool but as a fun way to build expectation for Christmas.
Date- We celebrate Christmas a day early on Christmas day. We open presents the morning of the 24th, hang out all day, and then have Christmas Eve that night. The next day we travel to see family. I think this a good way for pastor families to do the holiday.
Bonus: Stick with the story.
I never get tired of reading and studying the Christmas story. I use it as the anchor to keep me in the holiday. Read it over and over. Notice specific words, phrases, and images. Imagine what the characters were feeling or thinking.